| Author | Message | ||
     Mr_grumpy |
Some of you may have noticed my absences & some of you have been asking how things are settling down here. The long & short of it is, I love it here but my marriage unfortunately hasn't survived the transition. I won't go into the details as that's just between the two of us, except to say that my son & I will be staying here. It's a sad & difficult time at the moment but ultimately will be for the best I believe. I'm not putting this out here for sympathy or to rant, just to let you, my Badweb friends & family, know what's going on. Thanks for being with me all these years. | ||
| Pwnzor |
Innes, I'm very sorry to hear that. -Matthew | ||
| Chauly |
Likewise. A lot of factors at work in that crash chain, I imagine. Good luck! | ||
| Blake |
Innes, Best wishes for a quick resolution and as much healing as possible. Good to know you'll be staying here. I'm looking forward to meeting you in person sometime. | ||
| Teeps |
It always saddens me when I hear of family troubles such as this. Keep the faith, things will work out... | ||
| Hughlysses |
Sorry to hear it, Innes. Hang in there. | ||
| Doz |
Seems to be happening a lot, and I'll not try to add to all those annoying sayings that people use, but your not alone. Good to have your son stay with you though. Stand tall, stay healthy, do stuff with your kid. | ||
| Ourdee |
We did a 300 mile move in 05. I can't imagine the strain from your move. Stay friends, be excellent to one another. Take care of the son. | ||
| Harleyms |
A spouse should be half of your "team" if for some reason the other half of the team decides the game is too hard...I know it's hard to imagine but sometimes with a team mate that's not willing to endure the lows of the game, it's better to play alone for a while. My divorce was final almost 10 years ago, of my two kids I lost one to the poisonous mentality of my ex... my daughter is 23, hopefully she sees the light someday Head up, take care of your son and things will work out for the best. I'm remarried, 7 years in to a team mate that I have no worries about having my back. Mean while the cheater has had multiple failed relationships since. | ||
| 86129squids |
Well, craptastic. Hate to hear that, buddy. See if you can make it down south for Glitch Badness with your kiddo! Or at least plan a trip down to TN/NC/N. GA sometime in the warm months, I'd be glad to show you around- plus I'm sure Vern, et al will roll out the welcome mat! | ||
| Mr_grumpy |
Thanks for your support chaps I truly appreciate it. Road trip will definitely be in order when everything gets sorted, I'd like to ride the Dragon & the Cherahala on my own bike someday too. | ||
| Ratbuell |
The door is open here in maryland, too. Sometimes life changes can simply be too much for the other half. I went through it myself, with my accident and subsequent recovery process. Died on a bike in 08 (it obviously didn't stick lol), spent a year in physical therapy and much longer in cognitive/psych therapy, and apparently (I'll be diplomatic here) it was too much of a change for her. You will come out the other side, though. Might take a while, and I won't lie - there will be some dark days. But the end result will surprise you. The only thing you have to remember is to be true to yourself, and to your son. The rest really will fall into place. I've said it before - my life is nowhere NEAR where I'd planned to be at this point. But that's not bad. Its just...different. And believe me, different can be very, very good. Hang in, and lean on your friends - that's what we're here for!! | ||
| Etennuly |
 s.....or what ever the plural for that emocon would be. We will sit back and watch.....if you need us just ask. PM me if you get to the East Tennessee Smoky Mountains for a tour. | ||
| Mcelhaney14 |
Sorry to hear Innes. If you're ever in Southern California feel free to hit me up. I got extra bikes and there are a ton of canyons to ride here. | ||
| Ft_bstrd |
Sorry to hear this. Freakin' hate divorce. There are never any winners, just collateral damage. | ||
| Prior |
Innes, Sorry to hear, my friend. Take good care of the kiddo and come visit sometime!!! | ||
| Mr_grumpy |
Thank you all for your kind thoughts and invitations, I hope to accept as many as I can, when possible. Back to work and some Florida sunshine a are cheering me up today. | ||
| Akbuell |
PM sent |
